A generation destroyed in Quinte West

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If you look in the picture below you will see part of a generation destroyed. I am not kidding!

It is as if my family thinks the entire generation I am in should just quit and live on disability. Which is objectively insane on the face of it!

I have been autism Aware since grade school. Even I could tell back then! Social assistance is no way to live…

Three things they told me to do?

  • “Don’t worry about going to High School. Just charge your childhood molester.” This was something Mom wanted. Well I don’t want to charge anyone because then people will think I am just some Autistic person who randomly cries “Rape”. Something I demonstrated as Satire with Kaylib Drury.
  • “Quit working and go on Disability.” Dad said this. I don’t want to quit working… I am in pain & if I quit working I will never have any money for marijuana. I will just live in a constant struggle.
  • “Just Vote Conservative!” I don’t vote Conservative. I am queer and Autistic. I also saw the Harper Administration fight against gay marriage and marijuana legalization. I am going to go ahead and say no.

Listen the idea that 3/4 kids end up on disability isn’t good. It shouldn’t be celebrated. You are maiming your kids and walking away….

The only good thing about this experience is… I don’t have to ever worry about this happening again.

This is on the record now. I was put in Safe Beds against my will. That is deliberately how I recorded this event.

Why did I do this? I do not want to end up in long term care. Like my great aunt Barb I will fight it until the day I die. I will just not be as nice about it. I intend to be an *** !

Oh the photo above with Ashley & Matt was taken at Canada’s Wonderland. Where Matt wondered? “Why doesn’t Ashton Deroy want to use a disabled pass?” I just don’t Matt Clarke. I successfully integrated. You are asking me “Why don’t you want to opt to regress?” I just don’t.

3 ways Deroy, McGraw & Hill families create psychopaths.

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I kept hoping at some point everyone would shut up and let me do my own thing. However, they just had to autism aware a brain injury victim. So here is the truth. I have reported information on every single parent and relative that has probably made it’s way to social services. Time to explain myself after all of this time.

Why did I do it? What has been happening to give me so much anxiety?

  1. Over emphasis on independence – They are forcing morons in to resiliency. Even me with my ability to run in to walls over & over again. They don’t get it… People not capable of independence should not be independent. Not everyone can be rehabilitated for independence. That doesn’t mean they can’t work or be a functional member of society.
  2. Everything can be solved through psychology – No… Your psychology is wrong. Also performing exercises of emotional burden like Kimberly Hill Richardson, Mary McGraw and Nicole Hill. I did not approve of this. I disagreed with this entirely.
  3. Not recognizing someone’s moral authority – Just because someone is different, gender non-conforming or maybe weird. They feel they have the right to denounce it to enforce social normalcy. Then they push people in to these impossible moral arguments rather than take responsibility for improving their kids. The term is Obsessive Compulsive Disorder and it is not flattering how they got about it. I just fixate on birthdays & dying my hair blonde for brain injuries.

It is easy to make claims like…. “Stop lying!” response “I HAVE TO! You are a concern to my safety.” “Be a descent human being!” Response “I don’t want to because I don’t like who I am around!” “Go on ODSP” response “You are forcing harmful independence that could risk my social norms.” Besides that we all know ODSP is often abused as a lifetime system for people who can work… Rather than something for an emergency. Next time I get help with wages. I will need it 100% . I have Autism + Concussion and I have been wrecking my own life. I can own up to wrecking my own life. I just want my family to stop owning up to that and own up to their mistakes around me. If not we can keep this chaotic game going forever. I give 0 shits about a family of dumbass ideological psychotics.

A graduation and a Concussion later…. I am on Vacation. Peace!

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To: Jen

Location: 656 Gardiners Rd Unit 19, Kingston, ON K7M 3X9

Message: You almost killed me before I could celebrate getting out of college. How is the safety training going? B****! Life of the destitute grad. Get a job barely related to your field in Ontario Canada and have the job almost kill you. Yep that is Kingston Ontario!

3 problems with scheduling your content creation on Social Media & Blogging.

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Hey guys, so I have been hearing about the benefits of Content scheduling as well as Hootesuite since my first year of college ever. I personally am not thrilled about the standardization of the practice from a U/X experience. Where we think we’ve found efficiency as Marketers? We may of actually just found lamely executed shortcuts. 

I am an anti-Marketer but a firm believer in interpersonal sales & service. 

Here are the problems with trying to use the standardized approach to content creation and content promotion:

  1. Lost in the crowd of Notifications – I Subscribe to a lot of content creators on YouTube. Around 11:00a.m. Thursday the 14th of May. My phone was lit up with notifications over uploads of scheduled posts. Creatively speaking, It sends the user in 100 different YouTube directions with no focus. Mostly I end up clearing my notifications because it comes at me like hot spam.
  2. It makes the content seem meaningless – Personal curation of content is an underrated concept. This blog is doing it’s best because we manage personal relationships with our readers, clients & stakeholders.
  3. The same failure of TV is a failure of the web – Standardized scheduling for content will be the sure way to become ignored as overly corporate. I personally prefer a dignified marketing & sales approach with engaging and interpersonal content management strategies. A lot of the time when writing a blog I ask myself. What do my readers care about? Radio hosts use the same logic for engaging radio shows. What do our listeners care about? How can we meet them where they are. Rather than make communication convenient for us the content creator.

About author: Ashton Deroy is an experienced ex Market Researcher for Greenwich associated & an ex-Secret Shopper in Kingston Ontario. Consumer experience from promotion and sales perspectives is their written expertise. Ashton Deroy has a diverse education in Digital Marketing, Advertising Marketing Communications & Business. Much of the success of this site has been achieved by the approach of personal sales, customer service & integrating Fiverr Software. 

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Ashton Deroy writes: Or take advantage of a non-intermediary rate of $15 per 1000 words. I have always operated as a Starter Company with an academic culture as well. So starting as of April 2020. We are going to begin starting up ideas for Portfolio projects and Mock Clients.

Updated Mission Statement: “To learn & deliver advanced strategies in Communications, Business Planning & Sustainability.”

EXECUTIVE SUMMARY 

AshtonDeroy.com has talked about Socialism and Sustainability prior. Now our focus is more mixed. There will be blogging, Business talk, Sustainability talk & Communications talk.  We are still going to honor our Socialist culture. Especially during times like Pride, 4/20 and the Covid19 crisis. Now we just want to clean it up and make it professional. While maintaining our Social Democratic and Sustainability values.

Company Profile Summary

Ashton Deroy started the journey in 2016 as a Digital Marketing Business. Ashton Deroy has ventured into consulting on app development teams, consulted with Nonprofits, and suggested a layout for Seneca College’s counseling department. Long term this Business will behave as either a Partnership or Cooperative. This is an important part of being a Communications Business with a Socialist & Sustainability culture. 

Marketing Summary

AshtonDeroy.com would be really ambitious to get a regular podcast going. Besides that, we are a digital Business so we intend to stick to a digital domain. We will focus on getting Mock clients for reviews, Digital Social Media channels & Cross channel promotion with available Fiverr promoters. We will also lean on cold contacting on Kijiji as well.

Finance summary 

  • Cash inflows – Cash will be gained by sale of services and website ad revenue.
  • Cash Outflows– Mock client acquisition $50, Fiverr Promotion $50.
  • Investment – Will use personal capital to fund marketing and positioning strategies.

544 Victoria street. Kingston Ontario. Jango Property Management unlawfully evicts disabled female tenant

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Ashton Deroy writes: Before this post is done I am going to address all the claims being made in this eviction notice. Then I am going to make a counter-argument and describe the heartbreaking personal situation of the female tenant being abused in this scenario. This is going to be heavily presented in the legal and conversational defense of the tenant being abused. Then it is up to public participation to handle this situation moving forward. This post is made as a witness to abuses from a Super Attendant to a tenant.

Matricestar Management, 544 Victoria St. Kingston Ontario

  • Repeated harassment of another tenant intimidating language and false allegations – Jamie Macari has administered the house to directly benefit his participation within it. He does not grant tenants overnight visitation whatsoever, he has bossed both me & her around for matters within the house. He installed checks & balances for communal living that made this female tenant confided in me which made her uncomfortable. To put this in perspective we have an email record where they talk about organizing a house dinner & they threaten rental fines within the same letter.
    • Counter Claim – The home did not have locks installed on Tenant dwelling units despite the Municipal laws of Kingston Ontario. Therefore it is clear that the one with the power to do the harassment and intimidation in this situation is clearly Jango Property Management & Jamie Macari. The second issue related to this is Jamie was running an Air BnB in spite of the fact he had no locks to protect personal tenant properties. Items went missing from this female tenant’s room when someone entered without permission.
  • Making it hard for the Super Attendant to service the home – He claims this is due to false allegations.
    • Counter Claim – Jamie Macari confronted this tenant who was uncomfortable around him. Jamie Macari has control issues demonstrated by the fact he doesn’t follow proper and professional protocols to contact tenants. Yet he calls these claims false allegations.   To: Jamie Macari I encourage you to recognize the plain scapegoating you are attempting in this situation. It is fair to say while I am ready to admit and apologize for wrongdoing and harsh language. You have taken only steps under immense pressure to do neccessary improvements in the home. Furthermore, as a tenant I am leaving the house because of your personal behaviors toward me, not the female tenant’s actions as described. This is a classic Analogy at most of the pot calling the kettle black not a situation where you have been victimized. However, since you do not lack leverage in this scenario it is clear that you are not the victim of this situation. Herein basic legal terms is the Inequality of bargaining power. You also represent yourself as a tenant in issues of maintenance and as an Air BnB owner in situations of temporary stay services. I also believe that the home once audited will turn up in Jamie Macari’s name  & not a holding company as accustom to property managers. Meaning this is a clear problem of individual landlord versus individual tenant with rental contracts executed in bad faith.
  • Access to rooms – There may be an incident where she accessed a room that wasn’t her’s.
    • Counterclaim – For the purposes of this I extend that she had permission to access my room by the entrance. My understanding is that any other room she has been in since being here she has always had permission to enter.

Proposed solutions: Damages have been imposed on tenants due to the rental agreements executed in bad faith. 1. We need to audit the property to see who holds the mortgage to sort the nature of this claim 2. The Super Attendant and/or Property management company have to answer for possible claims of negligence. 3. Damages & or amounts paid in security deposits need to be repaid to tenants. 4. Since no attempts were made to accommodate this female tenant’s existing disability due to her prior circumstances this needs to be handled as a classic scenario of a Property Manager/owner failing to accommodate someone’s disability.

Transgender Fitness: Training Female to Male customers.

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Ashton Deroy Writes: Sedentary Female to Male Transgender persons ought to be a public health issue when going through Hormone Replacement therapy. Andro, DHEA, stanozolol, testosterone is an anabolic steroid. Beta-2 agonists can act as bronchodilators and increase heart rates, in addition to their mild androgenic effects.To mitigate the effects of this drug in Transgender Female to Male patients we need to enforce the fact that users of this drug need to get adequate weekly exercise to manage the effects on your body, to get desired results & to cope with aggression.

Exercise is healthcare

I love Transgender men from my family to my friends. However, the facts are the facts. A Transgender man on hormone replacement therapy needs to get adequate exercise. Cisgender people need 150 minutes of exercise a week. However, for Transgender men, I may encourage them to increase the exercise. For both desired body image and to quite frankly cope with possible roid rage from your hormone replacement drug.

Just like in the last blog I encourage Transgender female readers to try dance exercises to learn feminine expression. I will show Transgender Males exercises that I use to get in touch with my masculine side. As I have mentioned before on this blog I am a genderqueer writer who uses both masculine and feminine expressions. First is the abdominal assault link which will be in a clickable text format. Do not exceed an hour of exercise per day as a beginner! 

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For Transgender men I would have them do a lot of Strength training. To help them see more of the positive effects of their new chemical make up. Now, of course with strength training, I recommend doing a little core. With Strength, you can bulk up in the arms & bloat out in the middle, so I recommend doing core exercises sufficiently.

Now honestly, I wish I could say I encourage someone of steroids to workout less but the fact is after a while a burden may fall on you to live an active life. Definitely consult with your physician about how to approach this change as safely as possible. With Hormone replacement therapy a lot of the medicine is still improving to suit individual needs every day. To mitigate the effects of testosterone I can think of no better strategy than to integrate a fair amount of strength training into your daily routine to help handle the effects.

Personally, I do Strength training right before I go to see my boyfriend on weekends. It strengthens my arms, heightens my awareness & increases my energy for whatever is in store. It also has a key benefit of making me feel more comfortable in masculinity. I am not the most comfortable in masculinity but Strength definitely helps. It also helps my self-esteem that I am able to lift things some people can not lift. When I was at Giant Tiger on my recent placement with Keys Job Center? I was able to lift Banana crates the other staff could not by myself.

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Diana’s preference in comparing: WWE vs UFC.

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Originally written July 7 2018

Ashton Deroy writes:  The world of combat sports has been a world that appeals more to men than women. Sure you would have a few odd female fans watch wrestling & MMA. However, it was mostly a boys club. That was until the mainstream change of gender roles & perception in society. Fast forward to 2018 and the world has changed drastically. UFC a company that said would never have women fighters now has 3 weight classes. WWE also has some of the most well recognized modern female performers ever, including award winning and recognized women athletes. 

Still there is always this division despite the similarities of the people attracted to the WWE brand & to the UFC brand. If you did a venn diagram some would in fact interlap. For the purpose of this study, the interlap will be ignored for the sake of choosing a winner. In this study, Diana Skye a non-wrestling or UFC fan is going to be exposed to entirely new world for which she has very little reference to create a non-biased winner.  

Using YouTube channels, their shops & their characters. Diana is going to lock the two companies in a 3 round battle. Each evaluation for the round amounts to one point in a best of 3 battle. Only she will determine what product is more appealing to her. I, Ashton Deroy, will include my initial prediction in this study after Diana has separately made her own conclusions. 

I predict Diana Skye will choose WWE. I think she will be drawn to the character development, theatrics & glamour. This is because Diana Skye is in to fictional books & movies. I think she has a flare for the dramatics. Also because Mixed Martial Arts was once described as human cock fighting. So I think that will be too shocking to gain her interest. 

Summary

Diana Skye writes: To say that I didn’t know much about wrestling would be a massive understatement. The only time I recall seeing famous wrestlers on TV is briefly in the news, commercials featuring the legendary John Cena, and an episode of The Weakest Link featuring WWE members.  The idea of a sport that involved aggressive physical fighting just did not seem entertaining to me. When Ashton asked me to do this project, I decided it was about time to see what the wrestling hype was about. 

 

I kept an open mind while doing my research. While I still wouldn’t call myself a wrestling fan, I definitely have a better understanding of this very interesting world. There is more to it than just people beating each other up. Both WWE and UFC have very profitable merch shops and YouTube channels with millions of subscribers. The wrestlers also have distinctive personalities and characters, with creative storylines. I gave both wrestling groups rankings in all of these categories. I can see why they both have many fans, but one has an edge in my opinion. 

Shops

WWE Shop 

Ratings out of 5

4 for design

5 for character portrayal 

5 for attractive items

 

UFC Store

Ratings out of 5

3 for design

4 for character portrayal 

3 for attractive items

 

Merch has become an important part of branding, whether it’s for sports teams, small businesses, or YouTube entertainers. Even from just seeing the home pages, I immediately preferred the WWE Merch site. They had a large selection of items, including Funko Pops. Those were advertised right on the home page along with a variety of clothing items. Many of the designs were eye catching and represented the characters well. 

 

The UFC Merch site did have some interesting items, however it was harder to navigate. They also seemed to have less variety. I immediately noticed a category called “blanket, beds, and bath.” I clicked expecting interesting items like bath products and several sleepwear options. Instead there was only one simple nightgown. While WWE didn’t have any sleepwear, there were many casual items like hoodies, t-shirts, and sweatpants. Variety in merch items is always a win for me, so I’m giving this round to WWE.

 

Winner: WWE

YouTube

UFC YouTube

Ratings out of 5 (advertising)

Shop products: 4

Pay-Per-View: 5

Entertainment and additional services: 5

 

WWE YouTube

Ratings out of 5 (advertising)

Advertising shop products: 4

Advertising Pay-Per-View: 3

Entertainment and additional services: 4

Both the WWE and UFC YouTube channels have a large following. (28 and 4.6 million respectively) While WWE has a much larger YouTube following, I much prefer UFC’s channel. WWE tends to post many short videos every day. Personally, I don’t like to have my subscription feed cluttered by one channel. Some of these shorter videos don’t provide much content since they are less than two minutes long. In spite of their fantastic merch shop, there wasn’t much mention of it.

By contrast, UFC does not post every day. However most of their videos are longer. (A length of at least 5 minutes) Even the shorter ones are more entertaining. You learn a lot about their wrestlers and upcoming fights. They also do a good job of advertising other services without shoving it down your throat. Even as a non-wrestling fan, I feel like I got a lot from their channel. Therefore, UFC is definitely the clear winner for this round.

Winner: UFC

Characters

UFC

Ratings out of 5

Memorability 5

Shock value 4

Plot 4

WWE

Ratings out of 5

Memorability 3

Shock value 4

Plot 3

 

Despite my lack of wrestling knowledge, I recognized many names while doing my research. For example, UFC wrestler Conor McGregor lost to Floyd Mayweather in a famous boxing match last year. There were also many interesting characters I was unaware of. Paul Felder is an Irish American who started martial arts training at age twelve. Alexis Davis and Sarah Kaufman are two badass Canadian women who have had huge success in recent years. It taught me that big personalities are just as important (if not more) as skill in wrestling. 

 

WWE also has strong women like Ronda Rousey and Nikki Bella. However, the WWE characters and plots just didn’t intrigue me as much. The fights were intense, but not very memorable. I did enjoy the John Cena tribute, but many other Raw and Smackdown episodes were either not very exciting or downright outlandish. If I wanted to watch a wrestling event, I would much rather check out a UFC Championship. Therefore, they win this final round and the overall battle.

 

Winner: UFC

UFC

 

UFC has many fascinating characters and interesting storylines. They also post excellent videos on their YouTube channel. One thing they need to work on is the variety and items in the merch shop. They have many exciting characters so there is potential for awesome shirts, mugs, posters etc. Other than that, I preferred them in all categories. I would like to learn more about some of their personalities, such as the Canadian females I mentioned earlier. 

 

WWE

WWE has their merch shop going for it, with a variety of attractive items. However, they need to work on the entertaining aspect. More interesting characters and plots would make them even more successful. They should also tweak a few things when it comes to their YouTube presence, like video length and amount of posts. Even though they didn’t win my battle, I think they have a lot of potential. 

Conclusion

This was a very different experience for me since I usually write about makeup, social activism, or YouTube. I was skeptical when Ashton gave me this assignment, but I am glad he did. While I will never be a massive wrestling fangirl, I plan on continuing to learn more about it. I may check out a match the next time it’s on Sportsnet or TSN. The world of wrestling has a lot going for it and I can see why it has many fans.

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I am committed to calling out Sexism, Transphobia & Racism.

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Ashton Deroy writes: Belleville Ontario & Quinte West has a massive problem with Sexism. This isn’t a fact I need to back with stats, because it is just innate common knowledge from within the community. Sexual harassment in the workplace isn’t so much a rarity here as it is a common occurrence from within the workplace. In my Sustainability proposal I did outline how Sexist behavior isn’t so much being addressed in the community. As much as it is being embraced as a regular part of the work culture in Hawkin’s Cheesies. However it is not an exclusive issue to this company.

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At Hinduja Global Services I witnessed my friend to be forced through arranged seating to be sat near a man who was not only a drug dealer! He was also trying to harass her for a pair of her panties. This is unacceptable! This should have never been allowed. Maybe if Hinduja Global Services in Belleville Ontario can’t commit to addressing sexism in the workplace they should lose the privilege to assign seating. 

I am now committed to calling out sexism. To start because this will be a radical shift for the culture of Bay of Quinte as well as Belleville Ontario. I am going to call out in the most radical fashion imaginable! I might be a pain in the neck about it, but it is going to happen. It is time to recognize this is a United Nations Sustainability commitment and I don’t consider changing sexist culture as a matter of free speech, I consider this a human rights issue! 

Not only sexism, but if I see Transphobia going forward. I am going to react! It is time Transgender people feel safer in our communities. Yet we continue to enforce culture of misgendering, back talking & bullying in our workplaces, charities & communities. If our municipal politicians are not going to address this. I will address these issues! I am seeing a lot of consistency with my opinions on the Federal level, but not provincially & not municipally & it is time for that to change.

 Commitment to call out racism. The reason I haven’t finished this blog is that I was still attending a college within Belleville Ontario that has a rather racist reputation. I am talking about Loyalist College. A place where there majority of people alienate our East Indian students. I am tired of aiding in environments where these potentially new Canadians feel less included & unwelcome. Personally anyone who comes to Canada to develop a skill & work is welcome in my books & I will no longer leave room for people to say otherwise. 

Racist Loyalist College

That picture is linked to a Google review link which widely associates Loyalist College with racism. It is something the college must work on if they are going to continue to be an attractive option for International students. 

This is a personal commitment I will continue to use in my educational, professional and leisure pursuits. I will be on social media & out about connecting with marginalized members of the community and talking to them about their concerns. Then I will come to this high traffic Independent Belleville website & I will start giving the real news of the people of progressing these problems. Through my tag research & website statistics, I have learned I have a presence in this community. This is a presence I fully intend to use for the better. 

Commitment on abortion: This will continue to be an political topic I support not reopening. I will strive to censor pro-abortion groups or defame people associated with these groups. This is a division I will not compromise on! It is women of my income level who require unrestricted access to these services. Not the wealthy moralistic controlling members of society who are oppressing in my class & whom I continue to loathe! 

Instagram Statement: Call out #Sexism -It is apart of our Sustainability pact with the United Nations. – #BayofQuinte & #BellevilleOntario can not continue #Sexist culture – It is time to change sexism & sexual harrassment in the workplace. Much like I saw working at #HawkinsCheesies , #hindujaglobalservices , #Spdata , #Concentrix

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